Are we guilty of outsourcing our thinking? Relying on others rather investing in our own intellectual and spiritual progression?

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In every society, we find individuals we admire—leaders, mentors, sages, or spiritual guides who offer wisdom, motivation, and direction. Whether it’s a parent, a prophet, or a guru, these figures have long served as beacons, illuminating paths for us to follow. Yet, in our reliance on their guidance, a troubling question emerges: Are we outsourcing our thinking?

It’s undeniably easier to defer to others than to invest the effort required to study, research, analyze, and interpret the world for ourselves. Becoming a greater version of who we are demands discipline and perseverance. The process of “becoming” is defined as any change involving the realization of potentialities—a movement from a lower level of possibility to a higher level of actuality. When we push beyond the invisible boundaries we’ve accepted, we edge closer to this potential self, unlocking capabilities we once thought unattainable.

Growth flourishes when we continually challenge these boundaries, striving for greater heights and expanding our expectations. However, growth stalls when our thirst for knowledge and truth diminishes. It halts when we grow complacent, when we settle for the status quo, or when we shy away from tasks that feel difficult or uncomfortable. We cease to evolve when we no longer demand more of ourselves—physically, mentally, and spiritually—each day.

As children, we naturally look to our parents for lessons and examples. They guide us, shaping our early understanding of the world. Yet, as we mature into adulthood, we transition from dependence to independence. We marry, raise children, and become teachers ourselves, passing down the wisdom we’ve gained.

Consider Jesus, often addressed as “Teacher” and “Master” with good reason. He imparted profound lessons to his disciples. But was his role merely to instruct, or did he expect his followers to internalize his teachings, to incorporate them in their daily lives and share them with others? This raises a critical point: true education is not a passive act of receiving but an active process of internalizing and applying knowledge.

When we gain understanding, we no longer need to wait for others to direct us. If we truly understand and absorb what we’ve been taught, we grow into greater versions of ourselves. This knowledge and wisdom not only enrich our lives but also benefit those around us. We reach our potential when we stop totally relying on others to dictate how we should live, recognizing that we already possess the tools to act—yet often remain too comfortable waiting for inspiration from others.

This is not to say that we cannot seek inspiration from others. We can and should look to others that we admire and respect for wisdom and guidance in our lives. In fact, this guidance can often be a timely reminder of how we should live our lives and to grow into the person we are capable of becoming.

Our personal pursuit of knowledge and understanding is magnified when we not only apply lessons learned from others but also seek our own inspiration through prayer, contemplation, enlightenment, meditation. When we search our own souls for deeper meaning and truth that will not only guide us in our lives but allow us to share that knowledge with others, inspiring them to become greater versions of themselves.

The responsibility lies with us. It’s our burden to harness our intellect, seek out wisdom, knowledge and truth, and to apply them in our lives. Internalize the wisdom and guidance we receive from others but recognize your innate ability to tap into your own spiritual compass…to expand your understanding with a conscious effort every day to seek personal inspiration, to expand your thinking, to become a greater version of yourself. By taking ownership of our growth, we break free from the habit of outsourcing our thinking and step boldly into the actuality of our potential.

Take the first step today—commit to exploring one new idea, asking one challenging question, or seeking one truth on your own. Embrace the effort, and watch how it transforms your life and the lives of those around you.

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